A Field Guide on Gender and Sexuality

A Field Guide on Gender and Sexuality addresses contemporary questions about gender, sexuality, and identity from a biblical perspective. Published by Ligonier Ministries, this book provides concise, accessible answers to help Christians think carefully about these topics and engage others with both conviction and compassion.
Organized into four sections—Being Human, Homosexuality and Transgenderism, Events and Associations, and The Gospel and Love—the book takes a question-and-answer format that addresses specific pastoral and ethical concerns. Topics include the image of God and human identity, the nature of same-sex attraction, gender dysphoria and transgenderism, the ethics of attending certain weddings, the use of preferred pronouns, matters of conscience, and the role of church authority in moral discernment.
Throughout, the book grounds its answers in Scripture, emphasizing that human identity is rooted in God’s creative design and that the believer’s primary identity is found in Christ. It also addresses how Christians can share the gospel with those who identify as LGBTQ, navigate relational tensions without compromising biblical teaching, and resist cultural pressure to affirm what Scripture does not. The book encourages readers to rely on the means of grace, the counsel of pastors and elders, and the fellowship of the church as they seek faithfulness in these areas.
Key Themes
- The image of God as the foundation for understanding human identity and gender
- Biblical distinctions between desire, temptation, and behavior in matters of sexual ethics
- The role of the church in guiding believers through matters of conscience and discipline
- Loving others with both truth and compassion in an increasingly contested cultural landscape
Featured Quotes
“We can and should apologize if we have not acted in love when speaking the truth, but we must not apologize for telling the truth.”
“For Christians, our deepest, primary identity relates to our being in Christ. Paul says that it is no longer we who live but Christ who lives in us.”

Explore the Questions Addressed in This Book
Questions on Being Human
What does it mean to be made in the image of God?
What is sex for?
Do we create our own identities?
How do we know there are only two genders? What about people who are born with ambiguous bodies?
What should I think when someone claims to be a different gender than their biological sex?
Does gender reassignment or affirmation surgery actually make someone a different sex?
Is there a difference between one’s sex and gender?

Questions on Homosexuality and Transgenderism
Is same-sex attraction a sin?
What’s the difference between same-sex attraction and same-sex sexual behavior?
What’s the difference between gender dysphoria and transgenderism?
Is it OK to call yourself a “gay Christian”?
Is homosexual sin worse than other sins?
Can Christians with same-sex attraction expect their desires to change as they grow in sanctification?
What does repentance look like for a transgender person?

Questions on Events and Associations
Can I attend a gay wedding?
Can I attend the wedding of non-Christians? A Christian to a non-Christian? Cohabiting people? Someone who’s had an unbiblical divorce?
Isn’t it more loving to attend a wedding even if we disagree with the participants’ lifestyle?
Is it OK to use people’s preferred pronouns?
How do we know whether something is a matter of conscience or a clear teaching of Scripture?
Can I be friends with homosexual and transgender people?
When should a Christian disassociate from someone?

Questions on the Gospel and Love
I’ve sinned sexually. Is there hope for me?
What is true “compassion”?
How can I love family members and friends who identify as LGBTQ without compromising my Christian faith?
How should I respond if people call me judgmental or bigoted?
How can Christians serve brothers and sisters in Christ who experience same-sex attraction?
How can I share the gospel with people who identify as LGBTQ?
I feel pressure to affirm or participate in the LGBTQ lifestyle. What should I do?

